THAT'S NOT FAIR

~BHAVYTA ANAND

"It's easier to criticize than to create. That's why there are more critics than creators". 

Anyone who has ever done anything of significance has been at one time or another, unfairly criticised by those who believe, they deserve a reward for finding fault.

How do we handle such unfair, unjust and erroneous criticism?

One effective way is to understand that even the innocent cannot make everyone they encounter a satisfied person not because of what they do or don't do , because all people have their own faults, including the critics particularly those who are unfair in their comments .

Criticism boils down to a basic fear that can often get the best of us: the fear of rejection. When people are criticized, they feel rejected, judged, not part of. And, in the end, they let it affect their very image of themselves.

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By criticizing others and focusing on their imperfections, you can emotionally protect yourself at least a little bit But criticism isn’t a problem. It’s our reaction to criticism that’s the problem. It doesn’t matter what people say. Leave it behind and accept criticism as simply another inevitable facet of life.

No matter what you do, as long as you grow and surpass who you were yesterday, you will face criticism from those who refuse to change.

The tranquility that comes when you stop caring what they say. Or think, or do. Only what you do. Not to be distracted by their darkness. To run straight for the finish line, unswerving.” ~Marcus Aurelius